Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Love? Huh? Apakah?

Okay. Tadi ber-skype-ing with my friends. Suddenly, one of my friends asked me to webby with. Fine then. Rupa-rupanya dia ada love thingy problem. Seriously i pity on him. Shit. Kesian okay. Almost 1 and half years he didn't know and noticed about it. Sabar okay? You deserve better. Kau kuat, aku tahu. Then, he asked me, what love is?
For me,

"  Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.  "

 errrr, ENTAH. pfft!

Okay, takpayah nak bertekak sebab what-is-love about blabla. Terpulang kat individu tu how they describe,did,appreciate,adapt and react when they are really fall-in-love. It natural okay. Takde paksaan. If terpakse, that is bullshit, that is fake and itu bukan lah Love dah namanya. Okay. Gadis A suka laki B tapi laki  B taksuka gadis A. Gadis A buat macam-macam nak bagi si laki ni happy. A surprise,a sweet text, a sweet moment and so on. Tapi laki B tak cakap apa-apa, he appreciate tapi inside kosong. NOTHING. and laki B macam terpaksa "bayar" semua yang gadis A ni buat, just because "kesian pempuan ni, da macam-macam dia buat untuk aku. Aku pun kena la buat sikit mcm tu" Okay, ini bukan love, ini FAKE. Pity on si gadis. She doesn't know that the guy takde perasaan kat dia. Kalau dah tahu awal-awal that you can't make her/him day, just drop it off. Jangan dah separuh jalan baru realise saket lah sebelah pihak tuh. They are humans, and they have their feelings too. Hati orang ni, kita takbole ambil mudah. Sebab what goes around, comes around. Karma babe. Kalau dah rasa awal-awal that you cant cope with, just drop it off. Senang. Tak wasted time, tenaga, kredit, duit and all. True love bukan senang nak cari duh. Once we dah give all it out to someone we love,  like we plan or create a sweet moments with him/her, put a smile on him/her even you are not okay build something just to make him/her smile when they are down or hopeless, always by their side 24/7 just to make sure they will be okay, telan whatever shit things happend even diri sendiri saket, get damn worry bout him/her each time dorg saket, how excited you was each time wanna meet him/her but at last, they are feel nothing on you. Its hard to did it for the second times, trust me. Hard, its too hard and it really take a very fucking long time to be okay. It based on what my beloved people around me has been felt. I do rase saket, coz they are my beloved friends.  So please, jangan lah hurt someone which love you.  If rasa memang dah tak bole tu, just get rid of it. Drop it off. It's too pain when knowing the fact that your partner doesn't love you  like you did. Jangan masa konon-konon nak declare just say "yes, i accpt you as my bf/gf" at the first place but tak fikir masak-masak are you really love him/her or just takpelah, kesian dye ni. Heylo, lagi kesian when him/her tahu sooner or later that you are not into him/her. So, fikir masak-masak before you are about to accept someone in your life. Benda ni saket dan boleh buat jiwa kacau. Semua benda jadi tak tentu hala.

So, think wisely. You are big enough :)

 * tak ditujukan kat sesiapa pun, it's just my opinion and what i want to said bout it since my
beloved frend going very down just now. peace! :) *

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